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Some dates need company.

Forget Me Not helps you remember the days that matter to the people you love and gently reminds you to reach out when they come.

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Invite-only while we're in beta. Full release this October.
The Forget Me Not home screen, showing the week ahead.
Creating a life event: who it's for, and when to remember it.
The month view, showing remembered dates.

Twelve years ago, our son was born sleeping. In the years since, we’ve learned that healing is rarely carried by grand gestures. More often, it’s the quiet acts of remembrance: a text on his birthday, a message on a difficult day, someone simply letting us know he hasn’t been forgotten. Forget Me Not was created to make those moments of connection easier. It’s a simple place to keep the dates that matter and a gentle reminder when it’s time to reach out, because remembering someone’s loss can mean more than we ever realize.

Built by a family who has been through it.

Free to use — for as many people as you're holding.

A share of every membership goes to pregnancy & infant loss support.

Your dates stay yours. Nothing is shared, ever.

How it works

Four taps, and it's held for you.

The new life event form, starting with who it's for.
The month view, with the remembered date marked.
The sticker library — a way to reach out without needing words.
The home screen on the day, with a quiet note waiting.
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Start with a person.

A name, a relationship, and what you're remembering. That's it. No forms that feel like paperwork.

The new life event form, starting with who it's for.
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Add the date.

A due date, a birthday, an anniversary of loss. Mark it once and you will be reminded every year, or just the once. You decide what’s right.

The month view, with the remembered date marked.
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Choose how to show up.

A message, a sticker, or sending flowers. Support can look like more than a text. Choose what feels right.

The sticker library — a way to reach out without needing words.
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We'll remember with you.

A quiet notification on the day. Nothing loud, nothing public. Just a hand on your shoulder saying: today is the day.

The home screen on the day, with a quiet note waiting.

Remembering shouldn't be one more thing to manage.

We know life is busy. The app is built to make it easier to remember your loved ones and follow through on reaching out.

A whole year at a glance, month by month.

Everything on one calendar — week, month, or year.

The message library, sorted by the moment you're in.

A library of messages, when the words won't come.

A single day, with the reminder sitting quietly on it.

Reminders you set once and don't have to think about again.

No more realizing three days late. The dates stay close, so they don't have to carry them alone.

Small things, made easy.

Remember meaningful dates

Save birthdays, anniversaries, due dates, and the days that changed everything.

A gentler calendar

See your week, month, or year at a glance. No streaks to maintain, and no overdue alerts or pressure.

Find the right words

Thoughtful messages for the moments when you care deeply but don’t know what to say.

Remember together

Create support circles around your loved ones by sharing life event details so people who care can remember, support, and show up together.

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We're letting people in a few at a time so we can get this right. Leave your email and we'll send an invite when there's room.

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Built around how grief actually works.

Not a productivity app. A companion that happens to keep a calendar.

The life event form, with a date and an optional year it happened.
More than a date

“Ten years ago today”

Add the year something happened, and Forget Me Not will remember the whole story, not only the date, but how many years have passed. Because some anniversaries carry more weight with time.

The remind me to reach out screen.
More than a message

Light a candle, send a sticker, or just sit with it.

Some days call for words. Some days don't. Choose the gesture that fits, including the ones that don't require you to say anything at all.

The Forget Me Not home screen.
Nothing sends without you

You stay in control of every message.

Messages are yours to review before they go. Nothing is posted, shared, or sent on your behalf. Your dates and the people attached to them never leave your phone without your say-so.

Our story

It started with the people who remembered.

Twelve years ago, our son Jack was born sleeping. Inside the hospital, our world had stopped. Beyond the walls of the maternity ward, life continued. In those first weeks and months, the practical love and support of family and friends helped us navigate the darkest days of grief. But while grief changes with time, it never fully leaves.

What has helped carry us through the years are the people who continue to remember Jack with us. A simple text. A card in the mail. Small acts that tell us he has not been forgotten, and neither have we.

We created Forget Me Not was for both sides of that silence: for those carrying dates the rest of the world has moved past, and for the people who care deeply but don’t always know how to show it.

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Questions people ask.

Forget Me Not is for anyone who wants to support someone through grief, not only in the first days, but in the months and years that follow. It helps you remember meaningful dates, find the right words, and continue showing up when others may have moved on.
Yes. Recording life events and reaching out is free. Later this year we'll add an optional yearly membership for people who are keeping track of a lot of dates and people. The heart of the app stays free.
We're in a small invite-only beta right now. The full release is this October, during Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month. Join the waitlist and we'll let you know.
No. Every message waits for you to send it. You'll get a gentle reminder on the day, and what happens next is up to you.
Your events, your contacts, and your messages are yours. We don't share or sell them, and nothing is posted publicly. Full details are in our privacy policy.
You can pause or remove any reminder at any time, and nothing you've saved gets deleted when you do. The app should never make a hard day harder.

Resources that help.

Organisations doing important work for families after pregnancy and infant loss.

Pregnancy & Infant Loss Network

Support, education, and advocacy for families across Canada.

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Return to Zero

Films, resources, and community for bereaved families.

Visit site →

Still Standing Magazine

Stories and resources for loss parents, by loss parents.

Visit site →

Be there when it counts.

Forget Me Not opens to everyone this October. Join the waitlist and we'll save you a place.

We'll only email you about Forget Me Not. Unsubscribe any time.